July 26, 1946 - January 10, 2010
One smile for all,
One heart of Gold,
One of the best this world could hold.
Never selfish,
always kind,
What a beautiful memory to leave behind.
Thank you to all who were able to attend Jerry's service, but for those who couldn't be there in person, you can participate virtually.

Jerry's Celebration of Life Service was held at the Maple Shade Congregational Church United Church of Christ on February 13, 2010. It was divided into two parts, a traditional memorial service in the Church sanctuary and a "celebration "service right afterward in the lower level fellowship portion of the Church.

Please click on Church Service and you can follow along with the printed program on that page by clicking on the arrows (mid page) to turn the pages. Click on the Video Play Button in the middle of the screen to begin the video. It is about 40 minutes long.

Please click on Celebration Service and you can follow along with the printed program on that page by clicking on the arrows (mid page) to turn the pages. Click on the Video Play Button in the middle of the screen to begin the video. It is about 40 minutes long.

* As part of the Celebration Service, there was a video made of Jerry's life in pictures along with some of his favorite songs. It is below the Celebration Service video. Click on the Video Play Button in the middle of the screen to begin the video. It is about 20 minutes long.

If you experience any problems with the videos please download and install Adobe Flash Player.

In lieu of flowers donations in Jerry's memory or honor can be made to the following:

Charitable Donations

Donate to EMS

Hainesport EMS


106 Broad Street
P.O. Box 216
Hainesport, NJ 08036
Donate to Animal Sanctuary

Animal Sanctuary Society


P.O. Box 24
Mount Laurel, NJ 08054
 
Donate to Peacetrees Vietnam

Peacetrees Vietnam


P.O. Box 10697
Bainbridge Island, WA 98110
 
Sign Guestbook

Thank all of you for the many cards, notes of encouragement and prayers.
Your love and concern are truly appreciated.

The Guestbook

Jerry and I shared a love that some people search a lifetime for and never find. He was the most caring and gentle man I have ever known and that spirit will live on in all of us that loved him. He was sincere in his interest to help the sick and less fortunate and he gave of his time and money in an effort to live out his faith. He felt fortunate that his work at both Saab and Subaru be in areas that made a tangible difference to people and that he was able to interact with diverse groups concerning real-life issues. He worked hard at bringing people together by focusing on commonality rather that dividing people by their differences. So many of his colleagues came to be very close friends and they remained close even though they didn't see each other for years. We had no idea that moving to New Jersey would give him an opportunity to be a volunteer for the Emergency Squad in our town - it gave his life such purpose and he truly loved every minute of it. He made a lot of good friends through that group and they were there for him during his illness and have been for me afterward. Jerry gave me a small desk clock early in our relationship that was engraved with "Time with you is precious - I love you" and he always made me feel that the time we spent together was. We were thankful that we had found each other. We had a wonderful life together with our four legged family even though it was much, much too short - I have not only lost my husband, but I have lost my best friend. I hope that I filled his life with as much joy and happiness as he did mine. He made such a difference in my life and I think he would be pleased to know that so many people feel the same way even though Jerry was a most humble person. I love him more than words could ever express. Someone like him happens once in a lifetime - and I am so blessed that he happened in mine. I know he is still with me in spirit - he will always be in my heart and soul and I will cherish our precious memories forever.
-Deborah

We are sure sorry for your loss. Don't let things get you down and keep your spirits up.....Memories are a great gift God gives us. (friends of Shannon and Daves)
-russ and linda creviston

I had the gift of meeting Jerry when we started EMT training. I am proud to call Jerry my friend. His concern for people, his sense of humor will always be with me. Things will not be the same with out you.
-Jim Stewart

To the family of Jerry Plante, I work at Subaru with Jerry and will miss him. He was very kind and always listened and was always ready to help. He will certainly be missed. My thoughts are with you.
-Gabe Pilla

He was a friend of mine, a fellow car nut. He gave me a VHS tape of the wonderful PBS hour long special on Lime Rock Park Connecticut: "The Secret Valley". I have raced there many times, and this tape was really special to me. Jerry loved SCCA racing and we would talk at lunch about his exploits and mine. He had a great time at Le Mans this year. Jerry will be sorely missed. He was a friend of mine... Les Handly
-Les Handly

A year ago today I met Jerry for the first time. We were volunteering together. It was a painting job and he was the only man in a gaggle of girls and I said "Oh, good. you ready to paint?" He said "I hate painting". He stuck it out though, was funny, kind, and coated in specks of pink eggshell. He remembered everything we chatted about that day, was so very thoughful. I wish I knew him longer.
-Kerry Ann Miller

I am deeply sorry to learn of Jerry's passing. We lost a good guy he will sadly be missed I knew Jerry through EMS. He was a great care giver and devoted a lot of time in helping others, I will miss seeing him at the ER's greeting each other. May God rest his soul.
-Philip Wien

To Jerry's Family: I am a friend and colleague of Jerry's in Washington; both of us worked in the auto industry. Jerry was one of the most modest, yet thoughtful members of our industry. He brought new insights to our work from his varied experiences throughout his life. I considered him a soulmate on many of the issues we dealt with. I will miss him.
-Ed Cohen

It was a pleasure to work and know Jerry. When he found out my cat passed away he called me and said, when you are ready I know where to get you a kitten. I thought that was so nice. Jerry will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
-Jamie Gibbons

Jerry was one of the first people I met when I joined Saab in 1973. He impressed me right away with his helpfulness and intelligence. He was also one of the most caring and conscientious people I have ever known. We travelled to many places with Saab and faced many challenges with good humor and, for the most part, optimism. Back in the 70's I enjoyed giving Jerry a hand with his race car now and then, marvelling at how he did so well with so little against better funded competition. When Jerry retired from Saab it was thereafter like a puzzle with a missing piece. Our loss was surely Subaru's gain. Sometimes we talked about how the two brands compared and it was like the old days all over again. I wish those opportunities still existed as much as I wish the best for his children and, especially, Deborah.
-Dan David

Rest my friend. Our friendship was short but will not be forgotten. Your caring manner in EMS and your ability to make people laugh will always be remembered. We'll meet again in a better place. We are all better people for knowing you. Our thoughts are with your wife and children.
-LYNN & BILL WARREN

I know I am not alone in saying I will truly miss Jerry. I have known him through work over the years in the auto industry. Without a doubt, he always acted with integrity. He was always there 100% not just for the interests of his company, but for the industry as a whole. He was a truly caring person not just about the work aspects but about the human side as well. I have fond memories from all of the meetings, particualrly from sharing experiences at the joint AIAM-AIAMC - such as riding ATVs down the mountain at Whistler. His sense of adventure will live on.
-Amy Lilly

What a good soul. The world is a lesser place without him.
-John Christensen

Deborah Jerry was a very good and devoted EMT he was always very caring for everyone he came in touch with. He always would do anything that I would ask of him. He will be surely missed in the Hainesport EMS. I cant make service but Iknow the rest of the team will be there. God bless you and your family. Any thing we can ever do just ask Don Platt Captain H.E.S.
-Don Platt

I first met Jerry in 1986 when I went to work for Saab. I left Saab in 1991, but Jerry brought me back to work for him in 1998. Jerry was a wonderful boss and mentor, but more than that he was a wonderful friend. Whenever I needed help, Jerry was there to help in any way he could. That was the way Jerry lived his life – helping others. I will miss Jerry greatly, but will be forever grateful for time that I have known him.
-Gary Jones

Jerry hired me to work at Saab. He gave me opportunities that changed my life. We didn't always see eye to eye, but I always respected his committment to what he believed in. I know I learned something from that. I'm sure anyone who paid attention learned from him. I will always remember Jerry.
-Dale David

Dear Deborah Words cannot describe the pain that you must be feeling now. We only new Jerry for a short week, but we always found him to be a generous, caring and hospitable person who helped make our holiday a memorable occasion. Deepest sympathy to you and the children. He is in God's hands now, so all pain in gone. We will always cherish the brief friendship and laughs. Love from Ausralia and how about a visit, Donna and I would love to show you our beautiful country. Lidia Rozlapa
-Lidia Rozlapa

Jerry-san, I am really depressed about your passing away suddenly. I had no words to express my condolences first. Your support and great job of AIAM and communication with NHTSA helped all of FHI divisions great a deal. I especially owe you great a deal on corresponding with NHTSA in many issues in these years. I really enjoyed your company when we saw either in U.S.A. or in Japan. I have good memories of our visiting Meiji Shrine in Tokyo for pleasure and visiting Washington D.C. to meet NHTSA on business several times. I could not have achieved my task at FHI without your guidance and full support. I owe you a lot and I only pray for the repose of your soul now...
-Nobuo Inoue

Jerry, can't believe you passed away. I can only remeber your smile. Nothing more sad to hear that I have no chance to talk to you again, but yet, you live in everyones heart and that is for sure. If I am is the states, I have to be there on Feb 13th, but being in Japan, please accept my appriciation to all the things you have done to me. And allow me to call you as my very best friend. You are the best.
-Ken Kondo

I met you Jerry the first time in the end of the 90's when I got the position as Recall Campaign responsible at Saab Automobile in Trollhättan. We met many times and you were always supportive and spent a lot of time to teach me about the US legal system and how to adjust from the swedish way to the american. I will always remember you as the warm and unselfish person you were and one of very few truly good people I have had the good fortune to get to know. Jerry you will be missed ! And Deborah, God bless you, remember you have a Saab family in sweden.
-Thomas Sundström

I was saddened by Jerry-san’s untimely passing. Three years have passed since I started working with him to exchange car safety and insurance information. Jerry-san was so kind that he always provided me with more information than I expected, with sincerity and respect. I had much more to learn from him. I shall miss him very much. Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences.
-Shigeru Kojima

I was a colleague of Jerry's for many years--at Subaru and now Hyundai. He was always one of the first I called to discuss regulatory issues and I always appreciated his passion for his work and his insights. And he was an absolute sweetie. My colleagues and I are deeply affected by this loss and we send our prayers and thoughts to his family.
-Debbie Bakker

Gerald - what a pleasure to know an individual such as Gerald. A kind, soft-spoken man that cared for the rights of others. He once told me he marched with Martin Luther King. He supported our diversity efforts at Subaru and called me several times to offer help. Bless you Gerald - Your spirit will live on through your acts of kindness and caring for others. Abana
-Abana Jacobs

I had the good fortune to join the Plante family in August 2009. From the first time I met Jason, Jerry's son, I heard only wonderful things about Jerry. Jason has modeled his life after his dad and will continue to do so. Jerry and Deborah welcomed me into the family with open arms from day one. Each moment that I was able to spend with Jerry was a God-send. He is truly one to be looked up to by all. I feel honored to be part of such a wonderful legacy. With love until we meet again...
-Amanda Plante

This is a great website in Jerry's memory. Thank you for sharing his pictures and story. I had the chance to work with Jerry a couple of times in the past few years in the auto industry and he was always very open and willing to give his time. My condolences to his family and frieds.
-Nick Tamborra

I love you dad. You were more then a great father but my best friend. You were always there when I fell to help me back up. You listened when I had a bad day and always cheered me up. You always spent time we me when you could. I will do my best to keep the caring and kindness you bought to this world going.There is no amount of words I could say to tell you how much you will be missed and how much I loved you. I know you will riding with me anytime I race. I will see you again so have one of your hugs ready for me when that time comes. Heres a hug.
-Jason Plante

Jerry was one of the kindest, most down-to-earth people I have ever had the pleasure to know at Subaru. I know how busy he was and how many demands were made of him, but he always took the time to talk. I will miss Jerry very much. It is such a loss for our organization. Carolyn
-Carolyn Cairns

I am so sorry to hear of Jerry's death. Please know that you are in my prayers. I had the pleasure of meeting Jerry when I picked up my kitten, Polo, in 2008. He was so kind and thoughtful and really cared about the cats he rescued. Please keep up the crusade of saving our feline friends.
-Sheila Black

The world will miss Jerry's smile and laughter. I fondly remember the times we had as a SAAB/EDS team. My heart goes out to you Deborah and the Plante family.
-MJ Anderson

I've known Jerry for years, first as the US representative for Saab and, later, Subaru in safety matters. Jerry had a wonderful enthusiasm for his companies and for the work they did to prevent the harm that can happen in car crashes. He was, at heart, a kind, intelligent human being with a gift for infecting others with his optimism. He will be missed.
-Adrian Lund

Our friendship started back in the 70's with a mutual love for MGA's. Jerry knowing my weakness and passion for MGA's was always trying to sell me that race car!!! I knew Jerry for so long and on so many different levels. Co-Worker at Saab...friend, car enthusiast and even as a neighbor here in Killingworth, CT where he lived for so many years. We car pooled together with a crazy bunch of other guys for awhile and we had the poor judgement to let Nick Amendola actually drive us to work every day. Jerry lived off of Rt. 148 and we used to call it the "roller coaster road" and every morning Nick would do his best to get Jerry to spill his coffee over those big roller coaster bumps......and I will never forget the time on one very icy night here in Killingworth when Jerry got over exuberant (he never drove slow in those days) and wound up skidding off the road and into a swamp where the car remained, half sunk and listing to port, until a tow truck could extricate it. We laughed for years about that one!!! When we were younger on the weekend he would call me and say.."What are you doing today?"...and I would list out a litany of kids baseball games, chores, mowing the lawn and Jerry would say.... "I'm going over to Electric Boat to protest the launching of a nuclear submarine, why don't you come with me?" That was Jerry in a nutshell.....alwyas standing up for his beliefs AND doing something about it. I don't think I have ever met a more principled, committed, kind and caring person than Jerry. Although the years and careers have seperated us, he was always kind enough to stop back and visit here in Killingworth....go out to breakfast and get caught up. I will miss his kind and gentle soul and the respect I had for him and for all the good things he stood for and believed in. To Deborah, Jeffrey, Jason, Jonathon, Marisa and all his family; please accept my heartfelt condolences. Your husband and father was as good a man as there was and our lives are all the richer for having known him. In this difficult time I hope you can be sustained by the wonderful memories you have of him and of all the good he stood for and accomplished in this world.
-Michael Parahus

What a beautiful tribute. My prayers are with you and your family as you remember a wonderful man. Rev. James Wilson, Holy Trinity UCC
-Rev. James Wilson

I worked with Jerry at Saab Cars USA Headquarters in Norcross, GA. I always remember Jerry as a very conscientious and dedicated employee; yet one that was very kind, thoughtful and understanding - a true team player. I am very thankful to have had the opportunity to meet Deborah and Jerry for lunch back during their visit to Georgia in August. Life surely is short. Jerry will surely me missed.
-Greg Black

I worked with Jerry at Subaru and am saddened by his sudden passing. He always had a smile on his face and kind words for everyone. He will certainly be missed.
-Sandy Capell

I hope that i can do as good of job as Jerry did for the squad. All of Hainesport EMS misses him dearly. Love Christina Howe
-Christina Howe

I first met Jerry at Saab in 1983 and have worked with him in various capacities since. Respect for him has grown through the years as a kind and intellectually curious man with desire to offer care and love and happiness to all with great sincerity, and not just to his friends and colleagues and family. Reflected in his service in Vietnam, EMT volunteerism, and through his work and charitable daily actions was a genuine interest in leaving this world a better place. I feel that Jerry built his "house" and character around this his entire life and was just at the point when he was truly ready to make greater and broader strides in this effort. As we have seen so many times, it is such a shame when the good ones are taken so early. I hope at some time when his friends and family are together collectively in his memory, that Jerry's life will be recognized by a standing ovation accompanied by thunderous applause recognizing a life well-lived. Our sympathy to you Deborah and all of Jerry's family.
-David Raney

Deborah, We are so sorry for your loss. If this terrible disease had to happen, we thank God for being merciful and taking Jerry so he would not have to suffer long. Jerry is in a Glorious Place now. You and your family are always in my prayers. If there is anything we can do please ask. Love, and God bless you and watch over you. Louise.
-Louise Stanfill

Deborah: I was on vacation when I heard the news and was completely taken back. I have known Jerry working with him at Subaru for many years and he certainly was as everyone has stated in his guestbook a very kind and caring person. My husband met you and Jerry when we adopted Thelma and Louise and wanted you to know that our prayers and sympathy are with you and your family during this time of sadness. He may be gone but will never be forgotten. Linda & Tom Fouch
-Linda & Tom Fouch

Jerry, you are sincerely missed. You were a wonderful boss but most of all, friend. There isn't a day that goes by that we don't look for you guidance. I am grateful to you for all your support and all you've taught me. You will always be in my heart. Deborah, you are such a kind person and I can only imagine your pain. If you ever need anything, you know you can turn to us. You will always have friends here.
-Jill Ann DiVone

Over the past 5 years I have had the pleasure to work with Jerry on the Hainesport Emergency Squad. It was just a short time after our first meeting that it became apparent that Jerry was exactly as he has been described in the postings above.Jerry thanks for being one of those who made a difference and leaving such a positive legacy for all of us to remember and follow.
-Steve S

When Jerry left Saab he left me with many of the old Saab files he had stored away in his 30 years there. It was with much honor that I accepted them as I knew they were his scrapbook of memories. I treasured them then and, even though I have left Saab, I still keep them stored at my house. I plan to NEVER get rid of them. They are my connection to one of the best guys to have ever walked this planet. Jerry, you touched so many people in such meaningful ways your memory will live on for a long time.
-Sean McNamara

I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Jerry very well but the few times that we met, I knew Deb had a wonderful husband. He helped her care for the unfortunate and homeless cats, even the feral ones! He was by Deb's side like nothing I've seen before. Even though Jerry is not with us now, he is in forever peace and will await to unite with his friends, family and loved one's. Deb please know that you are not alone. Jerry is still with you and you will be with him again one day soon. You have touched a lot of people's hearts and you've saved so many lives. You are an angel yourself. I'm always here for you.
-Lynn M

"One Smile for All"....the one who wrote that, my Dear Cousin and Friend, knows your heart...that says quite a lot about you. That is how I will hold you. I will never forget the day you shared your experiences in Viet Nam and realizing for maybe, the very first time, what a special and rare human being you are. But, you never regarded yourself that way, at all. I will always cherish the happy times we shared when together at Family affairs. I will remember the happy times with you...your cheerfulness...you reflected your Mom and Dad's spirit...and passed it on...Love you, man....George
-George Glassanos

to the family of Jerry Plante, I had the opportunity to work at Saab Cars USA in Atlanta 1999-2001. During this spell it was such a pleasure , both professionally and privately to meet Jerry and Deborah. They made me and the family feel so welcome and always had a word. After I moved back to Sweden I had the privilege to keep in contact with Jerry every now and then to discuss different thing. He was such a warm and intelligent person and will be sorely missed..Toby
-Toby Eliasson

Debora: My thought is with you in this difficult time. You are in my prayers. The last time I meet Jerry was when i visit Atlanta a long time a go. Jerry and you was very kind and hospitable to me.
-Ulla Johansson

Jerry held the torch of tolerance and understanding inherited from Sadie and Sandy. The world is a better place because of his life. As a society we have so far to go. Keep his spirit and optimism in mind as we move forward.
-Mike Norris

It is tragic that such a good and decent man was taken from us so soon. I enjoyed working with Jerry and admired him for always remaining true to his principles. I will miss him. My heartfelt condolences go out to his wife, Deborah, and to his family. -Joe K
-Joe Kuter

As a brother-in-law, Jerry was the best one could hope to have. He was considerate, warm, unselfish and generous. I felt welcomed into the family the moment I met him! He loved books, history and the current political discussion, and we would share titles and ideas. I always loved how, despite an exterior of calm, he in fact was very passionate and committed, both to people and his beliefs. He and Deborah were wonderful together and he was devoted to kids, his EMT work, his church, his cats, and volunteerism. He left the world a better place... something to which we all aspire. I will dearly miss him.
-Marcia

Deborah, I am so sorry for your loss. I really liked and respected Jerry very much, but the truth is I don't know anyone who didn't. When I think of Jerry the words compassion, dedication, and above all love for you come to mind, and he had fun doing those things and was fun to be around. He will truly be missed. You are in our prayers. - Brian R
-Brian Ridgedell

I met Jerry back in '78 when I joined SAAB in Orange and although we not always agreed I enjoyed working with him. He was always there to help. His kindness, demeanor and intelligence was something special. I enjoyed riding motorcycles with him and one of the last times found us in Vermont in the pouring rain, Jason was on the back of Jerry's bike and although soaked to the bones since they did not have any rain gear with them, they had a great time and so did I. All the best for Deborah and his kids Have a great ride Jerry, you'll be missed. Alex Lieuwma
-Alex Lieuwma

From the first time I met Jerry. I knew that this was a person that I would have liked to get to know better. Even though I did not get to know him as well as I would have liked to, every time we saw one another, it was always a pleasure.
-Bob Betler

jerry was avery special man and a very improant part of Maple ?Shade. He always had a smile and a greeting for everyone. He will be greatly missed and fondly remembered. I loved hearing about his travels and his works
-linda n

I have known Jerry and Deb for almost five years, I am the property manager where they live. I will always appreciate the work Jerry did getting the defibrilator in the clubhouse and also the yearly inspections that have been done. Deb, by reading the postings it sounds like he lived his life the way all folks should live their lives, helping others. May you enjoy your happy memories.
-Carrie Poster

Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and Jerry's family. It was a pleasure knowing Jerry and always looked forward to seeing his wonderful smile.
-Gloria & Kenneth Taylor

Saab in the 90's was a rare place. Crazy times, but good, passionate people. At its core was Jerry. One of the kindest, sincerest spirits I have have ever met. The last e-mail I have from him was from a couple of year's ago. It was sent to several of us who were reminiscing about the old days when we were at Saab together. It read something to the effect of 'we should all be at Rio Bravos right now having a drink!' I am very sorry we never got a chance to do that. Jerry, I am a better person for knowing you. Thanks.
-Chip Wilkerson

Jerry was a great supporter of child motor vehicle safety and one of the first people I met upon entering this field. He always went out of his way to say hello and connect me with those that he thought would help our cause. These messages show that these characteristics were pervasive in his life. My sympathies to his family.
-Kristy Arbogast

I was very fortunate to have Jerry and Deborah as neighbors here in Georgia for about 4 years as well as work with him at Saab. What always struck me was his book savvy intelligence especially when Deb told me one day "He's reading a book on Einstein's Theory of Relativity". Coupled with his compassion for missions to far away countries to help the less fortunate, car enthusiast and a passion for pizza :)... I knew he was different. But what I will never forget was that great twinkle in his eyes when he spoke to you. This world will sorely miss him; he was one of nicest people I've ever met. My heart goes out to Deborah and the rest of the family.
-Bob Allard Allard

Jerry was a joy to know and work with! He was always very pleasant and friendly to everyone and will be missed tremendously! My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this very difficult time.
-Mary Ann Barrett

It did not take long once our mother introduced us to Jerry, that we realized she had met a wonderful man who we had no doubt loved and respected her very much. I feel so fortunate to have known him. Dave and I always looked forward to Jerry and mom coming to visit us. Jerry was one of kind and will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and all of Jerry's family.
-Shannon Overman-Wilson

I am certainly going to miss you smiling and friendly face in our neighborhood, and you constant suggestion for me to join the EMTs. That would have been fun, of a sort, working with you as you help others. You will surely be remembered here in the Glen as a caring person. I remember a few years ago I was at a Christmas party in the Glen. One of the guests had an emergency. We called 911. You were the first one there.
We will look after Deborah for you. She missed you so much. One day we will meet again, and I will be happy to join the EMTs there.
My prayers are with you and your family. Put in a few good words to Jesus for all of us.
Rich
-Rich Serfass

Debra I'm am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. The first time I met Jerry I knew that this was a special man when at the time he didn't even know me but offered to help me with my car. I will never forget the day when he brought home this small car better known today as a Smart car except in a Subaru version, he took me for a ride that day it was wonderful. He was a great neighbor and by reading the guestbook he was surely a kind and loving person. Barb and I will miss the smile he always gave us, he will certainly missed.
-Len and Barbara Adams

-Len Adams

I met Jerry over thirty years ago here in Killingworth where he was active in our church. Also remember Jerry, the pacifist and the Anti-nuke rallies. He cut his teeth in the EMS field by helping out with our local volunteer ambulance. I remember the tough decision he made to uproot his young family in order to follow Saab and his job. Sorry to hear of his loss but happy to see he continued his activism in all directions. He did make a differnce. God bless you all.
-Rick Albrecht

Dear Deborah and family,
Meg and I would like to express our sincere sympathy at this sorrowful time. Jerry was a very special person who touched the hearts of all of us that knew him. His passing seems almost impossible to believe and this must be an especially difficult time for all of you. Please know that our thoughts are with you as we share your sorrow.
As I think of Jerry, I visualize his bright smile. Not only was he a good friend, he was my mentor and Director at Subaru. Always inspiring and forward thinking, he has had a significant impact on my life. He had a keen sense of how things work and was an influential leader and teacher.
While held in high esteem by his peers and well respected by others in the automotive industry and government agencies, he was especially adored by those of us who worked with him in the Government Relations Department. His leadership was an inspiration to all of us.
By example and through his charitable work, Jerry continually demonstrated the importance of life and the need to help others. Always kind and quick with a compliment, he made those around him feel special. He was seriously devoted to the causes he believed in like rescuing stray cats or traveling to faraway places to help those in need. It was not unusual for Jerry to mention that he had been up late the night before because he had responded to a rescue call.
It always seemed that the simplest things in life made Jerry the happiest. Like finding ways to improve the lawn, which made Deborah very happy, figuring out a way to capture acorns as they fall from the trees, enjoying a slice of pizza or lunch with the GR gang at Mikado's.
Through his patience, understanding, and guidance, I have learned a lot from Jerry, and will be forever grateful for the time I have spent with him. Clearly, he is one of the finest people I have ever known.
In many ways and through his good work, Jerry has made our world a much better place. He will be fondly remembered by all of us that have had the good fortune of knowing him. I miss him very much.
-Brian DeAscentiis

I will truly miss Jerry and his thought provoking views on the environment, energy independence and the auto industry. Working with Jerry, whether a visit to the New Jersey's Governors office or his Chairing of the Association's Government Affairs Committee, was always a great experience as he brought well developed and challenging ideas to the table. We will miss his smile and friendship but never forget his personal and professional contributions.
-Mike Stanton

Jerry was a good friend and neighbor.
I served with him on Killingworth Vol. Ambulance for many years, in Killingworth, Conn.
-John Kuzminski

Deborah, we are very sorry and it came as a shoch for all of us. I had the opportunity to work with Jerry during the Saab time – he is just a great guy and leader! The Christmas conversation will be in our memories.
Our thoughts are with you and your family!
-Christian Gustavsson

As former Killingworth Elementary School teachers for all the Planet children many years ago, we would like to express our sincerest sympathy to all of you. Jay & Noreen (Picagli) Granucci
-Jay Granucci

I met Jerry with Deborah at Trinity in Cherry Hill. Reading the comments from variety of people he knew is wonderful to fill in who he was behind his smile and over the years before I met him. A very special man. I send heartfelt sympathy to Deborah, his children, his brother and sister-in-law, to all who knew him.
-Lynn Doosey

My Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Jerry will be greatly missed here at Subaru.
Sincerely
Sue Walsh

-Suzanne Walsh

On behalf of all of Jerry's friends at State Farm Insurance, I want to express our sadness over the passing of our friend and our deepest condolences to Jerry's family and close friends. I have had the pleasure of working with Jerry for over a decade; I have always enjoyed his true kindness, concern for others, infectious excitement for his job, and his unique ability to share points of interest for me to see while I traveled in the area. The auto industry and the world has truly lost a good friend.
-Steven Schmidt

I had the pleasure of knowing Jerry (and Deb) both professionally and personally for over 20 years. The tributes on this website is a true reflection of the unique and special person that he was. I doubt he truly understood until now how greatly he impacted each and every one of us. I was drawn to Jerry for a number of reasons -- his warm and infectious smile, never failing optimism, thoughtful (and often "out there") insights, caring and compassion, high intellect, and general love of life! He challenged conventional thought and put action behind his passions which is so rare. He gave to others freely expecting nothing in return. I will cherish the memories of our vacations to Seaside where we coined the phrase " who's got it better than us??" And who can forget our "crabbing" adventure in Wilmington? His love for Deborah was inspirational -- his loyalty to his profession,career and colleagues unmatched. He would not want us to be sad for too long but to live life with gusto as it is precious and unpredictable. Jerry, I promise to look out for Deborah. I know you are up there looking out for all of us with that huge smile of yours. Each and everytime I eat pizza I'll be remembering my friend Jerry striving to be a reflection of the great friend he was.... God's love and peace!
-Celeste Boisclair

Jerry has done more with his life and for the lives of others than most of us will do in our lifetimes. What a wonderful human being he was! There is a special place in heaven for people like Jerry. When I think of him, it's always the same - standing on the steps of your beach house, squinting at the ocean with a smile on his face, the wind blowing through that great hair. That is how I will remember him. Peace to Deborah and family.
-Tonie Cusimano

I Worked for Jerry for over 10 years. He was a very special man. I remember he told me once "my job is to make your job easier." It floored me, because although I have been very lucky with my bosses, he was a stand-out man. I only heard about this today, 1/25/10 and strangely I thought of him today and how he used to ride his motorcycle in all kinds of weather and I asked him what he did if it rained, he said "get wet." The following year our department chipped in and got him raingear to wear on his motorcycle. He fought very hard for his department and got me and I'm sure all of us, some pretty hefty raises. So that after awhile I was making what I considered to be a pretty nice salary and that was all because of him. We were lucky to know him.
-Ruth Phillips

Jerry's positive attitude was a key to who he was and will always be in my heart. He was a treasure, a gift and is gone from us way too soon. "If the whole of a man's life was measured by his love of God, pride in country and respect of life and nature," then our Jerry enters Heaven a very rich man. God bless you Jerry.
-Janet Jordan

Dear Deborah,
It is with shock and deep sadness that we have learned of Jerry's sudden passing. In the four years we have lived at the Glen, we have come to know you and Jerry, most especially, as mutual lovers and caretakers of God's precious feline animals. We have had many pleasant conversational encounters as we passed your house while walking our little dog, Teddy. The warmth and caring hearts of both you and Jerry have always been evident, as well as, the bond of deep faith which provided a connection among us. He was, indeed, a most gentle, caring and humble man. One only had to know him for a few brief moments to experience the character of the man. So many have said it so well within the sharings of this guestbook. We feel honored to have known Jerry and we offer you our deepest condolences and our continuing prayers. May Jerry now rest in the joy and peace of the Lord he served so well, and may he pray for all of us who are still on the journey.
-Grace and Bobby Barnett

Dear Deborah, You did not know that Jerry and I were neighbors for many years in Killingworth. We served togeather as partners on our local EMS. Many rides home after an ambulance run, Jerry would be my calming friend. It had to be those years of experience on med-evac choppers that gave him that inner peace... He also got me involved with EMS at Lime Rock. We were lucky his
skilled driving kept him out of trouble... We will all miss him.
-Charlie Smith

I first met Jerry at Pilgrimage United Church of Christ in Marietta, Georgia. He was a very engaging person and you couldn't help but like him immediately. And then to discover what he had done in his life in serving our country and helping our fellow people. He was so humble about it all, only learning about his service to others little by little. My husband Carl had a lot in common with Jerry when it came to cars, we were Saab owners and then became Subaru owners. Before Jerry left Georgia it was all about Saabs. Then after that, Carl and Jerry would email every so often about Subarus. Carl still has Subaru calendars from Jerry, hanging in the basement and in the garage. We are very saddened by losing Jerry and our thoughts and prayers are with Debbie and all his family and friends. His spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew him and loved him.

Mardie Elliott
-Mardie Elliott

Dear Deborah - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult period. Although my knowledge of Jerry was limited to those friendly discussions that we shared when you both would take your evening walks; it is obvious from the many beautiful tributes that have been written that he was a devoted loving husband and father; and deeply respected by his coworkers and friends throughout his life. He was a caring person who obviously enjoyed and participated in every challenge that life offered. More than one of my neighbors has indicated that anytime there was a medical emergency in the area that Jerry would usually be the first EMT to appear. While kind words alone cannot diminish the sorrow and grief that you are experiencing; hopefully, there is some consolation in knowing how much he was admired and respected by all those who came in contact with him. Your loss is much greater; but we all share that loss and will dearly miss him. God bless you and your family.
-Larry & Joan Huttinger

Jerry always been kind,compasionate and loving.
Me,my family and Sam pray for his peace.Also we pray God to give all strength to Debra.
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-gopi mallya

I knew, through working at Subaru with Jerry, that he was kind and patient and bright. Jerry was always willing to take time to explain technical information to help me in my work. I didn't realize how much Jerry shared of himself in so many ways and through so many organizations. Wow. He is truly a shining example of a wonderful humanitarian. The folks at Subaru will surely miss Jerry, as will everyone that knew him, I see. I am deeply saddened for your family and wish you strength, courage and warm and happy memories in the times ahead. I know Jerry remains with you in your hearts and minds. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
-Angel Holt

I met Jerry almost 30 years ago. We spend a lot of time together when we met. Riding the bike, canoing, playing with the kids. We discussed a lot, as much work as we discussed existential issues. I said to Jerry... sorry but I am not sure I believe in God... I rather believe in the Human Beeing ! Close enough was Jerrys response and that was Jerry in a nutchell. Humble, deep minded, intellegent and the best friend ever.
A small story... we went to work together from Jerrys house in Conecticut... suddenly a turtle is crawling over the road. Jerry stops the car and put the turtle in the trunk, and when we returned he put the turtle safe in the "swamp" Every one deserve a helping hand even a turtle.

Time went on and we both retired from Saab and then only met occationally, but there was like an invisable link and we stayd in touch.

Deborah we never met and I am very sorry we did not, Jerry talket so much about you.
Marisa you loved riding on my back as the little prinncess you were... Jonathon you impressed all the kids in Sweden when you did somersaults in my garden, Jeffrey and Jason you escaped in the birds tub in the "swamp" back in Connecticut. Long time no seen, now you are grown up! Carry on your fathers good spirit and you can never fail.

Mother earth lost someone who made a difference, lets continue in that direction.
Peter from Sweden.
-Peter Borg

A man who asked you how you were.
And waited for an answer.
A strong passion and thirst for life.
Always polite, accommodating and never withheld compliments.
Never above, never below, but always an equal.
With many, so many smiles.
Are but a few that come to mind when I think of Jerry.
This farewell my friend, is but before we meet again.

-Joseph Troupe

Hi Deb,
Very sad of the lose of Jerry!! When I opened the webpage, evryone knew Jerry the way I did, as a kind man with a BIG hart, he will be missed..........We are all blessed, to have known him!!!


-Jeff Johnson

Jerry was a loyal and dedicated member of our church family. I will remember his dedication and energy to help people who suffered tragedy from unfortunate circumstances and natural disasters. He eagerly went to their aid helping them rebuild their communities to improve their lives. His aid did not stop with helping people either, as he and Deborah rescued homeless kittens when working with hurricane Katrina victims in Biloxi.
My sincere condolences to Deborah and all of Jerry’s family. I am so grateful to have known Jerry as a trusted and caring friend who exemplified tireless goodwill.
Joan O’Donnell

-Joan O'Donnell

Rest in Peace Jerry, I know that your love will be with Deborah and your children. You leave so many of us with a memory of being a lovely gentlemen and so true to your convictions. I admired the love that you and Deborah shared and your dedication of the needy. When I think of you I smile and say what a good guy he was, I am better for knowing you!
-Heather Stewart

We first met Jerry in 1972 when he came to CT to work for Saab. We lived across the hall from him in the Apt house and then both of us moved to the "country". As fate turned out we moved to the next town.(He built we purchased) We've kept in touch over the years, enjoyed doing projects together when we lived closer and never forgetting Lyme Rock and the test runs on 148. Jerry was a good friend and will be missed. All our best wishes and thoughts to his family(s) and we are very thankful to Jason who so thoughtfully contacted us.
-Roger & Carol Kleeman

I was sorry to hear of Jerry's unexpected passing. Not being with AIAM, I was unaware of his illness. Jerry and I had good conversations over the years and I still remember our "sightseeing" tour on that very rainy day on Prince Edward Island after the joint AIAM/AIAMC meeting years ago.
-Steve Jonas

Deborah, I was shocked to learn of Gerry's passing. The last time we talked just before Christmas, he said he was feeling better. I know the pain you have at this time. We will all miss Gerry and his smile and good humor. We are all better for knowing Gerry.
Don Bearden
-Don Bearden

Though we only got to know him for a short while, Jerry had a great impact on our lives(Dennie's and mine). For 2 very scared people trying to return to worship after many years of feeling unwelcomed, Jerry was the first person to greet us with his open and welcoming presence. There are many precious moments we had with him and they will always be treasured memories. Jerry's is a great soul and his gentle and loving spirit will live on by all who have been touched by him.
Katie Cleary and Dennie Scott
-Katie Cleary

Jerry was one of my closest friends allways there to listen. I was in shock after getting John Libbos note. So unfair to take Jerry away far too early. We first met some 20 years ago after SCUSA moving from Orange,CT to Atlanta,GA. Jerry was a great mentor regarding US knowledge on safety, MVSS, NHTSA, product liability issues etc allways responding immediately with extensive feedback with Saab in focus. We travelled to safety conferences, court rooms, hearings etc all over US. Remember us once sitting at the honour table at a NHTSA dinner in Washington after a lower leg conference. Jerry really liked his trips to Saab in Sweden and he was allways wellcome! We stayed in close contact even after Jerry moved to Subaru until the end. I even took part in a Japanese language class incl how to act in buisness/life visting Jerry at Subaru, Cherry Hills. I did go over Jerrys huge legacy Saab library to list the content before SCUSA moved from Atlanta to Detroit. I understand Sean McNamara to have this library safely at his home! Besides our close work relation we got to be very close friends. Included riding on Jerrys motorcycle, discussing our past racing memories and going to events. At Jerrys church we teached "find your own road" to a child class. We talked about going to Jerrys summer house on the beach of south NC. I even took part in a demonstration outside a US Navy Combat Education Center. Jerry was against any war.
Jerry was an amazing friend and human beeing, allways there to listen and help, very wise, intelligent and knowledgeble. I will allways remember Jerry and god bless you Deborah.
-Göran Kähler

It really was an honor and pleasure to be able to call Jerry a friend and colleague for many years. I admired his involvement in charitable and humanitarian causes. Most of all, I enjoyed those times when a group of us would find time on a Sunday for a nice long motorcycle ride through north Georgia. He certainly had a passion for speed and was a superb rider!
Godspeed Jerry.
-John Libbos

Jerry was a great guy to work with. He always took the time to say 'thank you' and 'good job' when someone helped him. He was also fun to be around, with a joy for life and passion for whatever he was involved in that were contagious - which you can see from the many thoughts expressed in this guestbook. Although he certainly will be missed, I believe that Jerry's spirit will live on in all of us who knew him.
-Mike Cammisa

I had worked at SRD-IN from 2000 to 2004. At that time, I had no chance to meet Jerry-san directly but he had always adviced on telephone very kindly when I had concerned about legal problem. He had spoken in simple English for Japanese people, therefore, he had helped me a lot to understand the complicated problem easily. Thank you Jerry-san, thank you again.
-Tetsuya Shimada

My wife and I were stunned to learn of Jerry's death. Out of the blue he came to visit us in mission in Nicaragua 15 years ago, and we have remained friends ever since - although we have only seen each other a couple of times since then. What a gem of a person he was! We're all blessed by having known him.
-Bob Molsberry

Deborah

I remember when . . . so many years ago when Jerry first brought you to Pilgrimage and how blessed I realized that he would be with you in his life. I know I was blessed by him. Jerry and I laughed about being Lehigh alumni. He had a passion for mission, as you pointed out in your comments about him. I knew I could count on Jerry's support on any outreach work. I treasure the 1999 work tour to Ghana that he participated in. Over the years since I left ministry, I would get indirect reports about Jerry from people at PUCC. In the recent Lehigh Bulletin, I read about Jerry in the class section. Like so many others who have written, my life is richer for having known Jerry.

Blessings,
Tim Morrison
-Tim Morrison

JERRY PLANTE WAS A DEAR FRIEND AND A MAN ON A MISSION! HE WAS COMMITTED CHRISTIAN LAYMAN AND WAS THE DRIVING SPIRIT IN OUR CHURCH'S CHRISTIAN SERVICE COMMITTEE. AS A MEDIC IN VIETNAM AS I PERFORMED ALTERNATIVE SERVICE AT NEW JERSEY NEUROPSYCHIATRIC IN PRINCETON, JERRY AND I WERE INVITED TO TALK WITH THE STUDENT BODY, CLASS BY CLASS, AT XAVIER HIGH SCHOOL IN MIDDLETOWN CONNECTICUT ABOUT STUDENT'S CHOICE ALTERNATIVES TO THE POSSIBLE RESUMPTION OF THE DRAFT IN THE 1980S.
IT WAS MY GREAT HONOR TO OFFICIATE AT JERRY'S AND DEBORAH'S MARRIAGE.
GOD BLESS YOU, JERRY; YOU SURE BLESSED US.
LOVE
JOHN
-JOHN AND NANCY THURSBY

It seems we knew Jerry for such a brief moment but that moment had a profound impact on our lives. Never has anyone we have known better fit the description of "gentle man". A man of passion and compassion, Jerry made you feel that seeing you was the highlight of his day. To Deborah and the family, while your loss is indeed the greatest, you had the greatest gift in his life with you. You are in our prayers.
-Bob Goodyear

Deborah, please know that we were deeply sorry to hear of Jerry’s passing. He was a wonderful person, a shining star, who’s kindness and generosity brightened the lives of all who had the fortune to know him. Please know that we will keep you and Jerry in our thoughts and prayers.

Len & Nancy Ciccotello
-Len & Nancy Ciccotello

Hello Deborah…

I am one of the Saab old-timers who did not go to Norcross, so I have never had the pleasure of meeting you.

However, I did know Jerry from the time he joined Saab. Even though we never worked together directly, I came to respect the way he went about his work, and to admire his gentle, caring approach to life. My wife, Christine, and I were very saddened and shocked to learn of his passing so early in his life. To us, Jerry was one of those guys who we expected to go on forever.

What I remember most about Jerry was his absolute determination on the race track. In particular, I remember one race at Lime Rock when a bunch of us Saab folk ventured down to the staging area to give him moral support and wish him well. Apparently we didn’t bring quite enough support and well wishes as just before the race began Jerry discovered his battery was dead and the car wouldn’t start. No problem, we said…we’ll give you a push start. Not so fast…under SCCA rules, he was not allowed to have this kind of support. So Jerry took off to find another battery, just as the rest of the field was lining up on the track. He got back with a new battery, installed it, and took off in a fury well after the race started. I have no idea how far back from the field he was when he started, but as I recall he made up a good bit of time and finished quite respectably. He was one determined guy…and one damned good driver.

So Deborah, and all of Jerry’s family and friends, Christine and I send you our heartfelt sympathy and wish you all the best at this particularly difficult time.

Bill Walters

-Bill Walters

Jerry-san, I have worked with you since 2008 and learned many things from you. You gave us useful information everyday by e-mail. And your business trip to Japan was pleasure to me. I wish you were here. But your smile lives forever in my mind.
-Masato Saito

Dearest Cousin "Debby" - This beautiful guestbook and tribute to your dear Jerry is a wonderful opportunity for so many to express memories and wishes. Seeing friends and co-workers, church missions and EMT buddies who have added their thoughts, I pray you will sense God's comfort knowing so many truly cared for him. May all this love shown to Jerry and you be an example of how you both have touched and enriched lives beyond measure.
I am thankful to have enjoyed Jerry's smiles and happy spirit when you visited Ohio. Bob and I send our wishes for your heart to one day be healed and know that all the love you both gave to others will be, and is given back to you.
Blessings, Cousin Kay and Bob
-Kay Kenyon

Always a smile.
Always a kind word.
Always a positive outlook.
Always a humble spirit.
Those will be my forever memories of Jerry.

Brenda Cordle
-Brenda Cordle

I met Jerry at Saab around 1975. As some of you know he was a medic in Vietnam. I was also a Vietnam Veteran. Jerry was a Combat Medic. I know firsthand what a Combat Medic in Vietnam did. I flew with the 45 Dust-off. (Air Ambulance) Another hero has fallen “God bless Jerry as you move from this world to the next”
-John Vinci

A close friend and a former Saab colleague has far too quickly moved on to greater things.

Jerry was both a friend and a colleague with whom we worked together with for several years both here in Trollhättan and when visiting Saab Cars USA on company business.

Even at Subaru Jerry remained a close member of the Saab family and we often rang Jerry to chat and seek his expert advice .

Jerry always had time to discuss matters concerning Saab,willingly sharing with us his experience in finding the right road to take in many regulatory and legal issues.

Jerry will be greatly missed by many of us here at Saab.

We knew and admired Jerry for his participation in several worldwide assignments helping others in times of need and plan to make a donation to Hainesport EMS in his memory.

God bless you Jerry and please watch over us in our new quest for success at Saab.

Ray Beaufoy, Göran Kähler, Torbjörn Svensson ,
Eva Delin, Gunnar Persson, Thore Brattfors,
Peter Bergkvist, Mikael Fredriksson, Bo Lindskog
Susanna Larsson, Per Lenhoff, Thomas Sundström, Torbjörn Eliasson, Kjell-Åke Eriksson,
Per-Egon Kjellberg, Kristina Geers, Eric Geers.
-Ray Beaufoy

We are Marcia's aunt and uncle. We got to know Jerry through his younger brother, Jake and Marcia.As we learned of the good works Jerry did all over the world, we came to understand why he was so beloved by so many. Our admiration for him and his family has grown immeasurably and we so much look forward to being part of the celebrationof this remarkable life on Saturday.
-Lou and Merida Harrington

I am one of the many people Jerry has helped. I work at Subaru. One day I went into diabetic shock. Lucky for me Jerry was there to care for me until I was taken to the hospital. Afterwards Jerry would always check up on me to make sure I was OK. Thank you for everything
-Tom Calligy

Our sympathy to Deborah & family, Jerry will be remembered foundly, always a warm handshake & a friendly face with a bright smile. God Bless.
-Barb & Mike Lotierzo


I am a retired colleague to Jerry at Saab in Sweden.

I wish to join in with the people from Saab in Sweden. I fully support what my colleagues from Saab have written above. I am retired, but still remember and appreciate the close cooperation I and the group had with Jerry over many years.


-Sture Ericson

There is no greater legacy to leave behind than one that is filled with purposeful conviction that is put into action, which is what Jerry exemplified and personified with such a humble and caring spirit.

I was fortunate to know and work with Jerry at Saab for a number of years and never knew the level of his involvement with all of the various charities, organizations, and causes that he cared so greatly about. It only speaks to his character even more to hear the countless number of great deeds that he did simply-from the heart.

It is evident that Jerry lived his life to the fullest, without regrets and I am happy to have had the pleasure of knowing such a wonderful person who was geniune from the inside out.

Deborah and family, when you feel the sun shining down on you, be comforted knowing its Jerry's smile from above sending you all of his love. You are in my prayers.
-Cassandra Davis

It was a great shock to hear that Jerry has left us. I learned to know Jerry in the late 1980'ies when I worked for Saab in Sweden. We met each other occasionally in connection with different conferences in Sweden and the US. A lot of memories appear in my mind when I am writing these words. I am proud to have had the pleasure to know Jerry. He was a real nice and caring person. Why can´t we have these people with us forever?
-Anders Calltorp

Jerry was a very warm,kind and friendly man who was also a valuable member of the former Saab team in Norcross. I had the pleasure of knowing Jerry and Deborah,not only as leaders but as friends during those 12 years in Atlanta. I was always impressed by his humanity towards others in need. There are few like Jerry, anywhere. Heaven is shining a little brighter now that one of their angels have come home to be with God. We here on earth are a little sadder but more blessed that Jerry walked among us. May God's grace and peace abound to confort Deborah and the family from now on.
-Deborah Cox

My condolences to Jerry's family and friends. Jerry had worked with me any my associates from afar, always being so helpful in providing information about the child passenger safety features of Subaru vehicles for our publications on that topic. It was obvious that he cared very much for kids. Only now do I see a more complete view of this very kind and good man and I'm very sorry I was never able to meet him personally.
Deborah Stewart
Editor, Publisher, Safe Ride News


-Deborah Stewart

I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one,
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles
when life is done,
I'd like to leave an echo whispering
softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve
to dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
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